If you feel scattered, frazzled, and overwhelmed, a sure cure is a practice of silence.
Setting aside a regular time for silence can be challenging, but if you can find just ten minutes a day or an hour a week, silence will bring surprising benefits to your writing life. If you ever have the opportunity to take a silent retreat for a longer period of time, those benefits will multiple.
Creating a practice of silence means finding a place that is relatively free of extraneous noise and setting aside a regular time not to engage in conversation, either by speaking or listening. It does not mean you must be meditating during that time, or sitting alone in a room, or out on some mountaintop. Silence can be practiced while you do housework, take a walk, or do crafts. It can even be practiced with others.
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Some of the benefits of silence are obvious. Silence is tranquil. Silence helps us relax. Being silent calms our hearts and our minds. That harried feeling many of us experience in our daily lives eases away during periods of silence.
For writers, silence has some other, less expected benefits.
Silence helps us break through old patterns, especially with respect to style. Most writers begin over time to rely on the same familiar word choices, sentence structures, metaphors, and plot devices. These can become so engrained we don’t realize we’re using them. When your mind is constantly occupied with conversation and noise, it doesn’t have time to pause, recognize those patterns, and come up with new ones.
Silence helps bring us in touch with the mythic, nonrational part of our consciousness. Constantly dealing with noise and speech keeps us analyzing, organizing, planning, and remembering. The logical parts of our brain work overtime, while the intuitive, generative part atrophies. Since that nonrational part of our minds is where true creativity takes place, the barrage of conversation and noise we experience can take a serious toll on our writing.Taking a break from it creates a wide mental space where we can tap into a more profound awareness.
Silence helps us discover our authentic voice. Once we quiet the voices around us and stop thinking of what to say next, we can truly hear ourselves. We can get to know the person inside of us, without the interference of other people’s opinions. Silence helps us learn who we are and what we have to say. It enables us to get to the root of what makes us unique as people and as writers.
Have you ever taken a silent retreat? Do you practice silence in your life? What blessings has it brought you? How might you incorporate a practice of silence into your life?
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